Perfect . . . kinda

Ever had one of those moments when you realize all that you have? It ocasionally happens to me. And even when things go wrong and I'm in hurting and sad and tired, I can appreciate the good stuff.

"The One" has been wonderful as of late, but then he usually is. He has been doing laundry and cleaning the living room and working hard. Now that the laptop is back we often spend an hour or two in bed at the end of a long day snuggling and watching some bad tv shows. It's one of my favorite things. I find it amazing that at 7 and half years of marriage I still find myselg madly in love and looking for ways to spend more time with him.

"The Other" and I started dating a little over two years ago now, it seems so odd that 2 years could have passed already. Seems like it was just days ago that I spend all my time online talking to him, wanting him, but not being able to reconcile the feelings with reality. He does little things all the time that make it obvious he loves me. Even if he never said the words again I'd know. The sound in his voice, the way he looks at me (even when I'm pissing him off), comming over to snuggle even when he'd rather go home. It's all very sweet and I do notice all the small things, even if I never show it.

As for the woman. . . we haven't found one, and it's not a big deal. I'm sure just the right one will come along when we are ready. It would seem the list of what we want gets longer all the time.